Who Are You When the Usual Noise Gets Quiet?

Most of us try to change ourselves within the same state of mind we inhabit every day.

We analyze. We question. We replay conversations. We make promises about what we will do differently tomorrow.

Sometimes that works. But sometimes the thinking itself becomes part of the noise.

What if self-exploration occasionally requires changing not only what we are thinking about, but also the state from which we experience ourselves?

A Different State, A Different Perspective

Our ordinary waking consciousness is filled with familiar patterns.

We carry assumptions about who we are, what we want, what we fear, and what we believe is possible.

I have always been anxious. I am not confident. I cannot let go.

This is simply who I am.

Over time, these statements can stop feeling like interpretations and begin feeling like facts.

This is one reason I find hypnosis so compelling.

Clinical hypnosis uses focused attention and imagination to create a different psychological environment, altered state, if you will. As attention becomes more concentrated, some of our ordinary internal commentary can become less dominant.

And that shift can create room for exploration.

What would confidence actually feel like?

What happens when you imagine responding differently to something that has frightened you?

What do you notice when you temporarily loosen your grip on an old story about yourself?

Hypnosis allows us to move beyond simply talking about change and begin exploring what change might feel like as an experience. You experience the change in order to become the change.

There Is More Than One Door

Hypnosis is certainly not the only way human beings alter their ordinary state of consciousness.

Meditation can change our relationship with thought and attention.

Breathwork can create shifts in bodily awareness, emotion, and subjective experience.

Psychedelic states, now the subject of significant scientific investigation, can produce profound changes in perception, emotion, meaning, and one's experience of self. They also carry distinct medical, psychological, and legal considerations and should not simply be treated as interchangeable with hypnosis.

These experiences are different from one another.

But they share an intriguing possibility.

Sometimes changing our state changes our perspective. And a different perspective may allow us to encounter ourselves differently.

Who Are You Without the Commentary?

This leads to a question I return to frequently:

Who are you when the usual noise gets quiet?

What happens when the voice evaluating you becomes quieter?

The voice predicting failure. The voice rehearsing yesterday.

The voice worrying about tomorrow. The voice insisting that you already know exactly who you are.

Because when there is space between you and the familiar story, you can begin asking whether that story still deserves to determine what happens next.

An altered state does not automatically create transformation. The experience must eventually return with us into ordinary life.

The value is not simply in experiencing something different. The value is in discovering whether that experience helps us live differently.

Perhaps the question is not always:

How do I change myself?

Sometimes a more interesting place to begin is: What might I discover if I experience myself differently?

Curious About Clinical Hypnosis?

If you are interested in exploring how clinical hypnosis can help you work with patterns, imagination, confidence, anxiety, intimacy, or personal change, I invite you to learn more about my approach.

Explore Clinical Hypnosis or schedule a consultation at NicNatale.com

Depth & Desire

Reflections on intimacy, consciousness & becoming.

Dr. Nic Natale

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